Nigella's steeley face of determination as she walks into court - that's me that is. I have that picture on my fridge to remind me that no matter how much crap comes my way, never ever let my guard down and be out of control. I will never reveal my inner thoughts to people who know me. That would make me weak and vulnerable.
I don't understand why people around me need to gossip, and to ask someone else "what they think" about every minute aspect of their lives. What do they expect to achieve? Surely the person to make the best decisions in someone's life is the person who knows the most about the person, ie the person themselves. My opinion - stop fucking gossiping about crap, get off your fat bone idle backsides and do something. Talk is cheap.